As a Femdomme and occasional Findomme it does get boring when a sub you've never spoken to before approaches you with the first message "Give me permission to tribute". The best first message when tribute is mentioned should be "Tribute sent".
SO instead of looking for permission I have compiled a list of dates that GIVE YOU PERMISSION to tribute the Domme you have been lurking and watching and hoping to impress AND ideas for what to send them.
(These are UK celebrations and dates)
1st January - New years day. Reimburse her for her night of frivolity.
5th February - Chinese new year. Find out the year she was born and gift her something that relates (I was born in 1983 the year of the Pig NATURALLY!)
1st March - St Davids Day - a bouquet of daffodils.
17th March - St Patricks day. Offer to buy some alcohol or a good luck charm.
20th March - March Equinox. Seeds or flowers which can be planted in the garden to celebrate the spring.
31st March - Mothers day. Buy TWO bouquets one for Mistress and one for the superior woman who birthed her.
19th April - Good Friday. Chocolate is always a good choice for Easter.
22nd April - Easter Monday. Chocolate is always a good choice for Easter.
23rd April - St Georges Day - Dragon themed gifts or a Komodo dragon meet the animal experience at my local zoo, I've done it before it was amazing.
6th May - May day bank holiday. Money to spend having a day off.
27th May - Late May bank holiday. Money to spend having a day off.
25th June - Anniversary with my boyfriend. Money to spend on a meal, hotel and sexy lingerie.
23rd September - Autumn equinox the celebration of harvest, a gift hamper would make an ideal gift.
6th October - Harvest festival. A gift hamper of jams and other hand made items.
28th Oct - My Birthday so wishlist items! https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/10Z5QKQECNXN1
31st Oct - Halloween outfit from a wishlist or money for the evenings celebrations.
5th Nov - Guy Fawkes night. Money for the evenings celebrations.
30th Nov - St Andrews day. Shortbread? Whiskey? Tunnocks chocolate bar?
1st Dec - First day of advent. Hamper of fruit to symbolise the christingle.
25th Dec - Christmas Day wishlist items! https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/10Z5QKQECNXN1
26th Dec - Boxing day wishlist items! https://www.amazon.co.uk/hz/wishlist/ls/10Z5QKQECNXN1
Wednesday, 30 January 2019
Tuesday, 29 January 2019
Friday, 25 January 2019
Why do you like talking to me?
Blog inspired by a conversation with my sissy.
I think quite often slaves will question their value to Dommes. I'd imagine this would be more true to those who are unowned but also for those who are owned and wanting to impress their potential new owner.
Why do you enjoy spending time with me? I barely like spending time with me?
This question firstly saddened me then got me thinking.
When I see Dommes online calling submissives losers and unworthy this just reinforces the idea that subs are worthless and that (and owned sub) would be someone they wouldn't want to spend time with? After all if you think all slaves are losers and pathetic why WOULD you want to talk to them, why would you want to engage with them? It is a catch22. You want slaves to own but when you do you say they are losers and worthless and what superior woman would want to spend time engaging with those beneath them?
This brings us back to the idea that not all slaves are losers or pathetic etc which I see many Dommes agree with.
Sure some submissives get off of being called this and being ignored.
BUT when I own a sub I like to have daily contact even if it is just a check-in at the end of the day.
In regards to my sissy and our conversation I replied
I'm a Domme and you're a sissy, you've always done what you are told and we have fun in real time. You're polite and we talk non fetish too. Its not forced conversation and we get long. Why wouldn't I like spending time with you?
I also commented
If I was busy I'd just tell you I'm busy and can't chat that day. If I don't hear from you I make sure to send you a message saying "just checking in" just so you know I've not run off this goes both ways. Its annoying when guys just ghost but Dommes can do that too. I know we are both busy people and have stuff going on but a message a day should be the minimum contact we have.
You’re far too good for what I deserve you know
Shut up dickhead
That’s more like it ;)
I have started writing more blogs recently and will continue to do so as thoughts pop into my mind. I use this as a way to show potential slaves my through process and domination style as well as starting conversation with fellow dominants.
I think quite often slaves will question their value to Dommes. I'd imagine this would be more true to those who are unowned but also for those who are owned and wanting to impress their potential new owner.
Why do you enjoy spending time with me? I barely like spending time with me?
This question firstly saddened me then got me thinking.
When I see Dommes online calling submissives losers and unworthy this just reinforces the idea that subs are worthless and that (and owned sub) would be someone they wouldn't want to spend time with? After all if you think all slaves are losers and pathetic why WOULD you want to talk to them, why would you want to engage with them? It is a catch22. You want slaves to own but when you do you say they are losers and worthless and what superior woman would want to spend time engaging with those beneath them?
This brings us back to the idea that not all slaves are losers or pathetic etc which I see many Dommes agree with.
Sure some submissives get off of being called this and being ignored.
BUT when I own a sub I like to have daily contact even if it is just a check-in at the end of the day.
In regards to my sissy and our conversation I replied
I'm a Domme and you're a sissy, you've always done what you are told and we have fun in real time. You're polite and we talk non fetish too. Its not forced conversation and we get long. Why wouldn't I like spending time with you?
I also commented
If I was busy I'd just tell you I'm busy and can't chat that day. If I don't hear from you I make sure to send you a message saying "just checking in" just so you know I've not run off this goes both ways. Its annoying when guys just ghost but Dommes can do that too. I know we are both busy people and have stuff going on but a message a day should be the minimum contact we have.
You’re far too good for what I deserve you know
Shut up dickhead
That’s more like it ;)
I have started writing more blogs recently and will continue to do so as thoughts pop into my mind. I use this as a way to show potential slaves my through process and domination style as well as starting conversation with fellow dominants.
Sunday, 20 January 2019
Friday, 18 January 2019
It is your fault.
I've seen a lot of Dommes recently complaining about how the scene has become saturated with too many new Dommes or how "quiet" it has become.
If anything your income should be going UP because you are unique and your experience, content and web presence is what attracts subs to you.
When I see those Dommes complaining I also see they attract an increase of time wasters and those wanting to negotiate prices. BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU ARE DESPERATE. If you come across as needing the money then men will take advantage. If you can't figure out how to cast a wider net (those complaining about not earning) then you will never succeed. Put yourself out there.
Don't complain you aren't well known enough or underrated
MAKE YOURSELF KNOWN
MAKE YOURSELF RATED
It's only YOU that can do it
The internet has a huge knowledge base USE IT
Everything you would need to know to do well is at your fingertips the only thing stopping you is yourself.
If you complain for weeks/months/years that you aren't well known then why didn't you spend those weeks/months/years making yourself known? Energy wasted and spent in the wrong place.
What you need to do is THINK
What would a sub need to know about me to want to session with me?
My style.. am I a bratty Domme, strict, smiley, laughing?
How can they find this out about me? Videos, audio, photos? WHERE?
My rates? My limits? WHERE?
If you have to tell every single sub who approaches you the same answers then MAKE A WEBSITE and have it all laid out there.
Stop wasting time repeating yourself over and over again.
For every relevant question a sub asks you add it to the site the more information you have the better it is for you.
I know of many successful ladies who don't show their faces using just phone sessions or audio.
I know many successful ladies who don't do webcam sessions
I know many successful ladies who don't do phone or webcam sessions.
Whatever you decide to do MAKE SURE IT IS AVAILABLE TO FIND ONLINE.
Google is your friend if you search on google and find a site THEN SUBS WILL FIND THAT SITE.
Amberly Rothfield has a VAULT of knowledge about pretty much anything you would want to ask on her site so give that a look. https://amberlyrothfield.com good for new Dommes and those who have been online a while who are thinking "Where do I go next?"
Advertise as many places as possible.
If you are consistent then the money will be consistent. If you float in and out expecting to make big bucks that won't happen. I said before if you were a shop that only opened random times and days on a schedule that only you knew then customers would go elsewhere. As with subs if you are around and they notice you once you vanish for a few months they will find someone else. If you don't own them they will find someone else to fill that hole.
Personally 2019 is going to be my "fuck it" year I'm going all out. I've increased my video output and started to branch out more for advertising and promotion. I finished my degree with a 1st (highest grade possible) and now I have time to commit to this 100%.
I've already noticed an increase in income by just releasing 2 videos a week. I've noticed more bulk purchases and repeat customers (in just 18 days!)
You can do it no matter how dejected you might feel.
If it is slow for calls/cam log off and record some videos don't waste a day complaining how you made no money or how slow it is!
WORK SMARTER not harder.
The successful women online didn't just join twitter one day write FUCK YOU PAY ME and earn thousands. THEY WORKED FOR IT.
They built a brand, they created content, they did interviews, they travelled and got seen at the right places. I only compare myself to MYSELF on my previous years earnings.
If (as a new domme) you compare yourself to someone on the scene who has been around years and worked their way up then you will only ever feel disappointment because you aren't at that level and IT WILL TAKE YEARS BEFORE YOU GET THERE.
This isn't something that can be done overnight WORK WORK WORK.
If anything your income should be going UP because you are unique and your experience, content and web presence is what attracts subs to you.
When I see those Dommes complaining I also see they attract an increase of time wasters and those wanting to negotiate prices. BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU ARE DESPERATE. If you come across as needing the money then men will take advantage. If you can't figure out how to cast a wider net (those complaining about not earning) then you will never succeed. Put yourself out there.
Don't complain you aren't well known enough or underrated
MAKE YOURSELF KNOWN
MAKE YOURSELF RATED
It's only YOU that can do it
The internet has a huge knowledge base USE IT
Everything you would need to know to do well is at your fingertips the only thing stopping you is yourself.
If you complain for weeks/months/years that you aren't well known then why didn't you spend those weeks/months/years making yourself known? Energy wasted and spent in the wrong place.
What you need to do is THINK
What would a sub need to know about me to want to session with me?
My style.. am I a bratty Domme, strict, smiley, laughing?
How can they find this out about me? Videos, audio, photos? WHERE?
My rates? My limits? WHERE?
If you have to tell every single sub who approaches you the same answers then MAKE A WEBSITE and have it all laid out there.
Stop wasting time repeating yourself over and over again.
For every relevant question a sub asks you add it to the site the more information you have the better it is for you.
I know of many successful ladies who don't show their faces using just phone sessions or audio.
I know many successful ladies who don't do webcam sessions
I know many successful ladies who don't do phone or webcam sessions.
Whatever you decide to do MAKE SURE IT IS AVAILABLE TO FIND ONLINE.
Google is your friend if you search on google and find a site THEN SUBS WILL FIND THAT SITE.
Amberly Rothfield has a VAULT of knowledge about pretty much anything you would want to ask on her site so give that a look. https://amberlyrothfield.com good for new Dommes and those who have been online a while who are thinking "Where do I go next?"
Advertise as many places as possible.
If you are consistent then the money will be consistent. If you float in and out expecting to make big bucks that won't happen. I said before if you were a shop that only opened random times and days on a schedule that only you knew then customers would go elsewhere. As with subs if you are around and they notice you once you vanish for a few months they will find someone else. If you don't own them they will find someone else to fill that hole.
Personally 2019 is going to be my "fuck it" year I'm going all out. I've increased my video output and started to branch out more for advertising and promotion. I finished my degree with a 1st (highest grade possible) and now I have time to commit to this 100%.
I've already noticed an increase in income by just releasing 2 videos a week. I've noticed more bulk purchases and repeat customers (in just 18 days!)
You can do it no matter how dejected you might feel.
If it is slow for calls/cam log off and record some videos don't waste a day complaining how you made no money or how slow it is!
WORK SMARTER not harder.
The successful women online didn't just join twitter one day write FUCK YOU PAY ME and earn thousands. THEY WORKED FOR IT.
They built a brand, they created content, they did interviews, they travelled and got seen at the right places. I only compare myself to MYSELF on my previous years earnings.
If (as a new domme) you compare yourself to someone on the scene who has been around years and worked their way up then you will only ever feel disappointment because you aren't at that level and IT WILL TAKE YEARS BEFORE YOU GET THERE.
This isn't something that can be done overnight WORK WORK WORK.
Thursday, 17 January 2019
The biggest LOSER
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Lets face it a big fat LOSER like you is never going to get a woman like me.
Humiliating you to stop eating crap.
If you can't even see your fucking dick why would any woman? DISGUSTING big fat sweaty mess of a man.
So you're going to lose some weight for me.
Very every lb you lose you will send me $1 as a thank you for encouraging you to starve yourself for your Mistress.
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Humiliating you to stop eating crap.
If you can't even see your fucking dick why would any woman? DISGUSTING big fat sweaty mess of a man.
So you're going to lose some weight for me.
Very every lb you lose you will send me $1 as a thank you for encouraging you to starve yourself for your Mistress.
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Sunday, 13 January 2019
Wednesday, 9 January 2019
Jerk Off Encouragement SENSUAL
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I take pleasure in giving you encouragement in tugging that dick of yours. I tease and torment you as I created this erotic orgasmic jerk off encouragement mind fuck loop video. A sexual, topless experience I will tell you what to do and you will obey my commands. Play it over and over again as you edge and tease yourself into a frenzy. Contains genuine orgasm sounds I recorded of myself in a sound experience like no other. Tease, torment and encourage your cock every step of the way. Topless and erotic, sensual domination to get you touching, spending, sending and tormenting.
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Saturday, 5 January 2019
DOUBLE Blackmail and exposure with Mistress Komakino
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You couldn't resist it could you? You've gone and fucked yourself up haven't you!? Just by buying this video we now know EVERYTHING about you and we will stop at nothing to destroy you if you do not obey our commands and you WILL obey our commands and DEMANDS. You just can't resist two dominant women and now you have no choice. You're fucked, you are a well and truly fucked.
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Tuesday, 1 January 2019
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