Sunday, 29 April 2018

Bills I will allow you to pay/reimburse

Lunch £10 

Petrol £30
Groceries £60

NHS £8.80
Mobile phone £29.99
Pet insurance £32.32
Lottery tickets £22.50
Premium bonds investment £50
Shares investment £50

Just Because
Mani/Pedi £90
Weekend away £250

Contact me for bank details UK ONLY 

Via Niteflirt and IWantClips (CONVERT £ INTO $)

If you crave to pay a "big ticket" bill like rent etc then you have to earn the right to pay it by making my life easier first and show yourself worthy and reliable.

Saturday, 21 April 2018

Being the "other" woman.

When getting into a D/s relationship with someone who has a partner I personally feel that I have to make sure that partner of that sub is cared for.

I am a female supremacist and believe that all women are equal a subs girlfriend or wife isn't beneath me she shouldn't be punished for her partners fetishes. I want the sub to be open with his partner. I don't want to be the other woman or put a strain on their relationship. I don't want a sub sneaking around behind her back, her seeing his phone messages and them arguing because I am giving him something that she can't. I embrace the female sisterhood and always tell subs to explain to his partner the relationship we have. Its a fetish fulfilling relationship and I am always happy to talk to her and help her to learn skills if she is willing to speak with me so she can do it with him

If you are scared about losing your partner if she finds out don't seek out a Domme for sessions or you can TELL HER what you are doing so she doesn't have to find out. It is not up to the Domme to be a marriage counsellor or be responsible for you if your wife/girlfriend splits up with you if she finds out what you've been doing. You are a grown man and have full control of your actions.

99% of the time the partner doesn't find out or my subs are single. That 1% I want to make sure she doesn't lose out.
If I get spoiled she gets spoiled. There is a reason the sub is with the partner she fulfils something in his life that I don't give him so she should not lose out because I fulfil the other part of his life.
If you spend a lump sum on me she gets a gift or you take her out for a meal.
Pleasing me should also mean pleasing her.
Associate being a better slave with being a better boyfriend/husband.
This will make you a better man and slave, worshipping all women and realising they are all above you.

Sunday, 15 April 2018

When the fun stops STOP.

There is a big difference between fantasy ruination and self loathing to real mental stress and distress.

I had a sub approach me claiming after $30 he was being ruined, he was crying and couldn't afford it, he was the weakest he'd ever been etc. I pursued it telling to send more etc as $30 wasn't even a days wages and claiming ruination after such a small amount was clearly a lie. 
After about $100 later he was still claiming mental distress and so I put a stop to his tributes after which he still willingly purchased items from my Niteflirt page (videos etc). 

I told him to stop sending tributes and we continued to talk via Niteflirt chat feature which charges per message so he was still sending money but not excessive amounts.

I told him he made the good first impression which he intended to make as he wished to be owned by me. I sent him my ownership form and we agreed a budget and way around him from getting distressed from sending too much at any one time.

I know a lot of subs get off on the idea of being ruined mentally and financially. They claim they can't afford it or are crying parting with money or having panic attacks because its "too much! 
Whether this is true or not isn't up to me to decide if it is a typed word conversation. It is my duty of care to ensure you are safe and well. I'd rather have 100 fake subs claim they are ruined and I stop them early when they are clearly lying than risk one sub who is mentally ill getting worse from my actions. If I can't see or hear you  then I will assume you are telling the truth and put a stop on the session.