There is a big difference between fantasy ruination and self loathing to real mental stress and distress.
I had a sub approach me claiming after $30 he was being ruined, he was crying and couldn't afford it, he was the weakest he'd ever been etc. I pursued it telling to send more etc as $30 wasn't even a days wages and claiming ruination after such a small amount was clearly a lie.
After about $100 later he was still claiming mental distress and so I put a stop to his tributes after which he still willingly purchased items from my Niteflirt page (videos etc).
I told him to stop sending tributes and we continued to talk via Niteflirt chat feature which charges per message so he was still sending money but not excessive amounts.
I told him he made the good first impression which he intended to make as he wished to be owned by me. I sent him my ownership form and we agreed a budget and way around him from getting distressed from sending too much at any one time.
I know a lot of subs get off on the idea of being ruined mentally and financially. They claim they can't afford it or are crying parting with money or having panic attacks because its "too much!
Whether this is true or not isn't up to me to decide if it is a typed word conversation. It is my duty of care to ensure you are safe and well. I'd rather have 100 fake subs claim they are ruined and I stop them early when they are clearly lying than risk one sub who is mentally ill getting worse from my actions. If I can't see or hear you then I will assume you are telling the truth and put a stop on the session.
