When subs try to Friendzone Dommes

I’ve recently had to dismiss/block and end a community sub relationship.

I realised how some subs expect more time of Dommes then they would actually pay for.

It seems some community subs wish to have a harem of ladies who they keep daily contact with but maybe tribute once a month?

Lonely men who want friendship without the payment. Unfortunately contacting a FinDom for this will only ever end in heartache for the sub. They will find their emails ignored, their texts ignored and feel a sense of entitlement as they are not only subs/Domme but they are FRIENDS.

I found I was actually spending more time on a community sub then My own owned boys who tribute weekly. I don’t know why I allowed My time to be eaten up by this sub it was My own fault for liking his company and there’s nothing wrong with that. Not until I stepped back and looked at it from Dominant point of view that I realised this sub was using a FinDom website as a social network and I don’t see it that way. I don’t use FinDom websites like facebook, boys have to earn My attention therefore I had to cut all ties with him. If he didn’t wish to be owned, then that’s fine but he couldn’t expect Me to spend My time on him when he wasn’t tributing.

I guess My conclusion will be to Dommes who talk to community subs is make sure you weigh out the time you spend talking to him/her Vs the time you spend with your owned boys, if this community boy is demanding more time get rid of them!
They have their uses for Christmas and Birthdays but any more then that then they want the "friendship" without the ownership. I'm sorry mr submissive but I'm worth more then just your friendship My value is monetary.