It seems that subs are no longer wanting to impress a Domme, be under consideration and earn the right to be owned.
Why are some subs in such a rush to be owned? Why do you expect to be swooped up as soon as you send one tribute, where is the price in impressing a Domme, showing your worth and working to be a part of her life?
I remember seeing subs in chat telling everyone how lucky they were to be under consideration by a Domme and how they will work hard to be the best sub and one day hope to be owned by her. It happens less and less now.
Its so boring seeing subs post online "I want to be owned" and waiting for Dommes to jump on them and send messages telling them they want to own them. Why would you want to own a sub who hasn't proved himself worthy of it?
I hold subs under consideration for at least 3 months maybe longer if necessary. I am in NO RUSH to own a sub unless he is 100% dedicated and loyal to me. THIS is the reason so many subs are owned and unowned as quickly as they join the site. These are the same boys who complain they can't find a "real" Domme because they are in such a rush to be owned they don't take the time to impress, get to know or understand the process.
Velcro collars and 5 day ownership's SHOULDN'T exist. If you want to tribute to many Dommes become a community slut there's nothing bad in admitting you like to tribute all the beautiful women.
I think the under consideration process is just as if not MORE important then ownership. This is where you lay everything on the line.. You get to show a Domme how much she means to you, how much you can offer her with your mind, soul and wallet and this process shouldn't be rushed. It is possibly the start of something beautiful that may last the rest of your life.
I love getting a new boy under my consideration, that dizzy giddy feeling of his yearning and cravings for me. Hearing how he has watched me from afar and finally picked up the courage and getting to know him and how we connect on a higher level. Knowing how lucky he is to be part of my small unit of boys and hoping to be taken on for the long haul.
