MistressX BLOG: May 2017

Monday, 29 May 2017

I am not a Findomme..

.I'm a fetish content provider and On-Line/Real-time ProDomme I realise 3 years ago it was great subs were paying My bills when I posted I wanted them paid. I went on holiday (funded by subs) I had excursions (funded by subs) and was taken on shopping trips.

This year 3 years later I am going abroad again for the 1st time since then and nothing. Well a good reliable community sub has purchased items. I had a pair of bikini bottoms purchased without the top and NO subs have come forward offering to tribute towards the cost of My holiday or My excursions.

A lot has happened in this time. I've gone to University maybe I'm slack and not putting as much into FinDomming as I was? I've even had subs say they haven't tributed or approached Me because they ASSUMED I was too busy and had too many subs to pay attention to them. "Never ASSUME, because when you ASSUME, you make an ASS of U and ME"

Last year I earned more then I ever have! I am now happy to be a fetish content provider and webcam and real-time Domme. I'm happy with that. If a sub wishes to approach Me then I'll speak with you but right now I'm not a Findomme. It seems subs want or expect a million messages, texts, chat or more before they are willing to hand over any money. I get bored of subs who are haggling, those who say I'm too expensive or that they want Me to persuade them to pay up because it turns THEM on... I'm just not into that, that's not what gets Me off!

I miss the good old days of a sub tributing because your photos are beautiful and they wish you to have a good day, or offering to pay for a Mani/Pedi or seeing a post wanting a bill reimbursed just so they can have an impact even a small one of your life.

I know it's Me, if other Dommes are finding it easy then it must just be I'm online at the wrong times, posting the wrong things etc so best just to step back I think. I think Maybe I should have stepped back a few months ago but I have a holiday coming up so I can recharge and come back better then ever.

Things change over the years and we have to adapt. I just no longer consider Myself a FinDomme I don't feel what I provide is of that category. Yes I make fetish and Domination videos and hold sessions for money but that is making money from a product and that it something I personally don't consider FinDomme.