Sunday, 29 April 2018
Bills I will allow you to pay/reimburse
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Saturday, 21 April 2018
Being the "other" woman.
When getting into a D/s relationship with someone who has a partner I personally feel that I have to make sure that partner of that sub is cared for.
I am a female supremacist and believe that all women are equal a subs girlfriend or wife isn't beneath me she shouldn't be punished for her partners fetishes. I want the sub to be open with his partner. I don't want to be the other woman or put a strain on their relationship. I don't want a sub sneaking around behind her back, her seeing his phone messages and them arguing because I am giving him something that she can't. I embrace the female sisterhood and always tell subs to explain to his partner the relationship we have. Its a fetish fulfilling relationship and I am always happy to talk to her and help her to learn skills if she is willing to speak with me so she can do it with him
If you are scared about losing your partner if she finds out don't seek out a Domme for sessions or you can TELL HER what you are doing so she doesn't have to find out. It is not up to the Domme to be a marriage counsellor or be responsible for you if your wife/girlfriend splits up with you if she finds out what you've been doing. You are a grown man and have full control of your actions.
99% of the time the partner doesn't find out or my subs are single. That 1% I want to make sure she doesn't lose out.
If I get spoiled she gets spoiled. There is a reason the sub is with the partner she fulfils something in his life that I don't give him so she should not lose out because I fulfil the other part of his life.
If you spend a lump sum on me she gets a gift or you take her out for a meal.
Pleasing me should also mean pleasing her.
Associate being a better slave with being a better boyfriend/husband.
This will make you a better man and slave, worshipping all women and realising they are all above you.
I am a female supremacist and believe that all women are equal a subs girlfriend or wife isn't beneath me she shouldn't be punished for her partners fetishes. I want the sub to be open with his partner. I don't want to be the other woman or put a strain on their relationship. I don't want a sub sneaking around behind her back, her seeing his phone messages and them arguing because I am giving him something that she can't. I embrace the female sisterhood and always tell subs to explain to his partner the relationship we have. Its a fetish fulfilling relationship and I am always happy to talk to her and help her to learn skills if she is willing to speak with me so she can do it with him
If you are scared about losing your partner if she finds out don't seek out a Domme for sessions or you can TELL HER what you are doing so she doesn't have to find out. It is not up to the Domme to be a marriage counsellor or be responsible for you if your wife/girlfriend splits up with you if she finds out what you've been doing. You are a grown man and have full control of your actions.
99% of the time the partner doesn't find out or my subs are single. That 1% I want to make sure she doesn't lose out.
If I get spoiled she gets spoiled. There is a reason the sub is with the partner she fulfils something in his life that I don't give him so she should not lose out because I fulfil the other part of his life.
If you spend a lump sum on me she gets a gift or you take her out for a meal.
Pleasing me should also mean pleasing her.
Associate being a better slave with being a better boyfriend/husband.
This will make you a better man and slave, worshipping all women and realising they are all above you.
Sunday, 15 April 2018
When the fun stops STOP.
There is a big difference between fantasy ruination and self loathing to real mental stress and distress.
I had a sub approach me claiming after $30 he was being ruined, he was crying and couldn't afford it, he was the weakest he'd ever been etc. I pursued it telling to send more etc as $30 wasn't even a days wages and claiming ruination after such a small amount was clearly a lie.
After about $100 later he was still claiming mental distress and so I put a stop to his tributes after which he still willingly purchased items from my Niteflirt page (videos etc).
I told him to stop sending tributes and we continued to talk via Niteflirt chat feature which charges per message so he was still sending money but not excessive amounts.
I told him he made the good first impression which he intended to make as he wished to be owned by me. I sent him my ownership form and we agreed a budget and way around him from getting distressed from sending too much at any one time.
I know a lot of subs get off on the idea of being ruined mentally and financially. They claim they can't afford it or are crying parting with money or having panic attacks because its "too much!
Whether this is true or not isn't up to me to decide if it is a typed word conversation. It is my duty of care to ensure you are safe and well. I'd rather have 100 fake subs claim they are ruined and I stop them early when they are clearly lying than risk one sub who is mentally ill getting worse from my actions. If I can't see or hear you then I will assume you are telling the truth and put a stop on the session.
I had a sub approach me claiming after $30 he was being ruined, he was crying and couldn't afford it, he was the weakest he'd ever been etc. I pursued it telling to send more etc as $30 wasn't even a days wages and claiming ruination after such a small amount was clearly a lie.
After about $100 later he was still claiming mental distress and so I put a stop to his tributes after which he still willingly purchased items from my Niteflirt page (videos etc).
I told him to stop sending tributes and we continued to talk via Niteflirt chat feature which charges per message so he was still sending money but not excessive amounts.
I told him he made the good first impression which he intended to make as he wished to be owned by me. I sent him my ownership form and we agreed a budget and way around him from getting distressed from sending too much at any one time.
I know a lot of subs get off on the idea of being ruined mentally and financially. They claim they can't afford it or are crying parting with money or having panic attacks because its "too much!
Whether this is true or not isn't up to me to decide if it is a typed word conversation. It is my duty of care to ensure you are safe and well. I'd rather have 100 fake subs claim they are ruined and I stop them early when they are clearly lying than risk one sub who is mentally ill getting worse from my actions. If I can't see or hear you then I will assume you are telling the truth and put a stop on the session.
Saturday, 3 March 2018
Trainer sniffing ballbusting punishment
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Tuesday, 27 February 2018
Spell your name GAME
Spell your name and PAY Then send a message with your tribute with your name in.
GooglePay/Circle/AmazonUK mistressxuk@gmail.com
Saturday, 10 February 2018
Sunday, 4 February 2018
Accepting new slave applications
I am accepting applications for new slaves
In the real world giving Me every penny you own is not possible and for a man to become bankrupt it means he is no longer of any use to Me I will stretch your finances to their limits but not leave you broke. No one wants to play with a broke toy. I am looking for boys who will reimburse my daily spending, offer to pay my bills so my life is made easier by their sacrifice. I'm not necessarily looking for big spenders but those who know their place is to make my life financially easier by being there to pick up the tab. I have regular boys who pick up silly things like tea or cake once or twice a week I don't talk to them just send the payment request and they pay it. This is what excites me knowing you are there and will pay when it is requested of you. However I understand all subs are different and expect different things from ownership some wish to have more contact then others I always expect daily contact as a minimum however some subs prefer weekly. It is tailored to the individual.
You give Me money to fill that hole inside you, you live to give to Me and making Me smile is your goal. I get turned on by the idea of a man handing over his money WILLINGLY because he is so overcome by My power and beauty. A goddess should not have to ask for tribute it should be placed at her feet!
It can take years before being officially owned by me. Only when I sense you have truly understood the sacrifices you must make for me will I actually collar you this is an honour you must work for and only when I think you are ready will you even get a chance at being one of my loyal slaves.
HOW TO SERVE ME
Learn something about Me before approaching.
Read My blogs!
Read My website Mistressx.co.uk
Read my twitter @M1stressx
There is nothing more annoying than a sub asking 100 questions that are all answered on my website.
Complete an application form to be placed under my consideration WITH TRIBUTEhttp://mistressx.weebly.com/ownership.html I WILL NOT READ YOUR APPLICATION WITHOUT A TRIBUTE ATTACHED. You must make a good first impression to do that you will show you value my precious time. If you send Me an email saying "Mistress I want to serve you" without a tribute attached you will be ignored.
I accept Western Union, Circle, Google Wallet, Niteflirt/IWantClips tribute however you must pay extra for the site commission and direct bank transfer. (I will not accept GCS for ownership payments)
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